so first of all, why am i now known as "the short asian dating bobby craft?" excuse me, people, but i have an identity of my own that far exceeds the fact that i'm simply "bob's girlfriend." yes i'm short, yes i'm asian, yes i'm dating bob, but there's so much more to me than that that identifies me and singles me out as an individual. for example......................yeah, ok, i got nothing, but still. i just don't like the fact that i'm known by some people as just "bob's girlfriend", especially people who know me better than that. good God, has it gotten that bad that "bob's girlfriend" is my main attribute to society?? WTF?? <-- (that was for you, kate) wake up folks! i have a name and it certainly isn't "girl who's dating bob." geezus.